“Builds healthy, reciprocal human relationships. He is faithful to
friends, and (if married) affectionate, attentive, and servant-like to a
spouse, and (if a parent) patient and nurturing to his children.
“Such a one is swift to admit when he is wrong, to forgive when offended, to offer support when another is in need. Perhaps the bottom line is simply this: we are talking about a person in whom others delight because, wherever he goes, he brings "loads of Christ" with him.
“Knows how to engage the larger world where
faith is not necessarily understood. Some of his personal choices and convictions on
living may not appeal to those outside the edges of his faith, but those who
know him usually accept his "peculiarities" because this
Christ-follower brings cheer, stability, and energy. Admittedly, there are
times when a person of faith will be despised, but hopefully there are more
times when he is valued as an asset (not a parasite) to his "world."
“It has
not gone unnoticed that the temptation of modern church life is to draw its
people into the church's programs and away from influential contact with the
community.
“A
transforming Christian is likely to resist this gravitational pull. He will
pursue friendships with people who walk in other spiritual pathways. He will
make contributions to the greater community, especially those that bring equity
and relief to struggling people.
“In short
he will not be absorbed into religious institutionalism.
“Could I
also add here that the transformed Christian does not allow the beauty and the
stimulus of the larger world. He is mindful of artistic and cultural
experiences. He maintains an informed, even prayerful, view of local and
national affairs.
“And he is
aware of where history is going and what it takes to hand on a new and improved
world to the generation that will replace him.”
Please
forgive the non-inclusive writing, it’s his not mine.